Catch the Upward Spiral and Strengthen your Resilience-Dr. Arielle Schwartz

The Power of Positive Change

Catch the upward spiral Build resilience Dr. Arielle Schwartz

Do you ever notice how one small positive change can shift your perspective? Recently, I had one of those rough days and was feeling irritable and down. I decided to get out for a walk anyway. After ten minutes, I began to notice the subtle colors of the clouds as the sun lowered in the sky. The feeling of the wind on my skin helped to lift my spirits as I reclaimed a sense that “everything was going to be okay.” Before long I had a familiar spring in my step…I had caught what Alex Korb calls The Upward Spiral (New Harbinger, 2015).

Whether you are recovering from trauma or facing lifelong depression, the upward spiral can help you focus on the cumulative effect of the small changes you can make to improve your mood each and every day. Korb offers a recipe for a balanced life with a cup of positive thinking, a heaping tablespoon of good habits, and a sprinkle of mindfulness.

“There are many ways to overcome obstacles and create positive change; you might choose exercise, therapy, relaxation, meditation, art, music, or keeping a gratitude journal. Most importantly, only you know what brings you joy. Once you find a recipe that works in your life, I invite you to commit to a regular practice devoted to bringing balance and resilience to your life. The combined power of your chosen practices can help you catch the upward spiral. Not only do you benefit, but research indicates that resilience is contagious—that we benefit vicariously by witnessing each other overcome challenge.”
-Dr. Arielle Schwartz

The Downward Spiral

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Stress, anxiety, depression, and unresolved trauma take a significant toll on your wellbeing. Sometimes, it can feel like a daily struggle to keep yourself afloat. Korb describes this process as a downward spiral in which stress, a history of anxiety, or a predisposition toward depression can bring you down.

We’ve all had moments when we experience something difficult and then start to feel exhausted, or sad, or worried that another bad thing will happen. You might think “oh no, I’m going down!” In part, this occurs because of how memories are stored in the brain. When you feel sad you are more likely to remember other times that you were sad. This is called state dependent memory and it is why people who have PTSD can get triggered by events that lead them down a rabbit trail of interconnected traumatic memories.

But, state dependent memory can be used in your favor. Your positive emotions, sensations, and memories are also interconnected. Consequently, focusing your mind on memories of times that you felt happy, empowered, or peaceful can help you recall other positive experiences…helping you connect to the upward spiral.

7 Practices to Initiate the Upward Spiral

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There are so many ways to create positive change in your life; you might choose exercise, therapy, relaxation, meditation, art, music, or keeping a gratitude journal. Most importantly, only you know what brings you joy. The following practices are some of my favorite practices to create the upward spiral effect. Explore what works for you:

1. Move your Body:

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Research shows that exercise provides you with a natural chemical boost to lift your mood by increasing endorphins, serotonin, and norepinephrine (your natural feel-good chemicals). But moving your body in any form, event subtle movement is also beneficial. Interoception is the practice of attending to the internal sensations of your body. This can include a sense of hunger, sleepiness, alertness, tension, pain, or restlessness. If you ignore your sensations, you are more likely to override your basic needs which can lead you to feel imbalanced, anxious, or out of control. Instead, try anchoring your awareness in your body. Explore a way of moving your body that brings you joy…moving quietly in your living room, walking outside, or devoting to a regular yoga practice.

2. Heal your Gut:

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The enteric nervous system (also called the belly brain) is an intricate mind-body communications network. Your gut is made up of the “microbiome;” an ecosystem with hundreds of species of good and bacteria within your intestinal tracts. An imbalance of this ecosystem can lead to an inflammatory response in your immune system and a wide range of disruptive symptoms—including anxiety and depression. Keys to creating a healthy microbiome include reducing sugar, identifying any hidden food allergies, and, since stress interferes with digestion, building more relaxation into your daily routine.

Connect to Nature:

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When we cultivate a mindset of presence in the outdoors, we ask ourselves to “be here now” as we notice the details of the world around us. The Japanese offer the practice of Shinrin-yoku, translated as forest bathing. They believe that time in nature improves our physical, emotional, and social well-being. The next time you step outdoors whether in your garden, neighborhood walk, or hiking trail, take the time to savor the sensory details of the light, the sounds, the smells. Allow the beauty around you to strike to inspire awe.

Practice Gratitude:

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Keeping a gratitude journal is associated with increased positive mood, increased optimism, feeling connected to others, decreased pain, and better sleep. Commit to keeping a gratitude journal and write down what you are grateful for each day. Most importantly, even if it is difficult to find something to be thankful for, the positive results are associated with simply remembering to look for things to be grateful for (Korb, 2015).

Connect with Others:

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Healthy connections to others, whether this occurs in person, over the phone, or even via texts or social media in our modern world, can initiate regulation of our body and mind. When you feel safely connected, accepted, and understood in relationship you engage your social nervous system, the part of your vagus nerve which has a calming and soothing effect on your body and mind. See if you can allow yourself to both give and receive within the context of a trusting bond with another.

Practice Compassion:

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Engaging in loving kindness mindfulness meditation is associated with increased vagal tone, an increased sense of social connectedness, increased positive emotions, and decreased chronic pain. You can explore the following practice by starting with yourself, expanding loving kindness to someone who is a caring friend, and then offering the practice to neighbors, strangers, or animals. Eventually, you may choose to extend loving kindness to someone who brings up challenge or difficulty for you. Begin by saying to yourself, “May I be happy, May I be well, May I be safe, May I be peaceful and at ease.” Practicing for another, you say, “May you be happy, May you be well, May you be safe, May you be peaceful and at ease.”

Get Inspired:

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Resilience is defined as our capacity to adapt well in the face of adversity. In short, this is our psychological and physiological capacity to flexibility respond to difficult events. And, witnessing the recovery and resilience in other people who have survived hardship lifts us up. Perhaps you look to the generations that proceeded you and get inspired by the stories of within your own family. Allow yourself to be inspired by someone who has triumphed over difficulty. What allowed them to persevere? What can you learn and apply to your own life?

Share your Story

Take the time to discover the ingredients that create an upward spiral for you and create a recipe for increased happiness in your life. If you’re inspired, share your own practices in the comments below to help build our community of positivity! You never know when your story of resilience will be just the right inspiration to help another.

Further Reading:

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About Dr. Arielle Schwartz

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Dr. Arielle Schwartz is a licensed clinical psychologist, wife, and mother in Boulder, CO. She offers trainings for therapists, maintains a private practice, and has passions for the outdoors, yoga, and writing. Dr. Schwartz is the author of The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control and Becoming Whole (Althea press, 2016) and co-author of EMDR Therapy and Somatic Psychology: Interventions to Enhance Embodiment in Trauma Treatment (Norton, 2018). She is the developer of Resilience-Informed Therapy which applies research on trauma recovery to form a strength-based, trauma treatment model that includes Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), somatic (body-centered) psychology and time-tested relational psychotherapy. Like Dr. Arielle Schwartz on Facebook, follow her on Linkedin and sign up for email updates to stay up to date with all her posts.

 


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